Just in case you don’t know me, I only have two cardinal rules; Don’t play with my time or my people. That’s it. Play with both and we have a huge problem. Normally, I just go with the flow. It’s kind of my thing. The problems come in when that gets taken for granted. I had a person toss it in my face as a negative recently when my answer to their request was no. Entitlement is unattractive. If you fail to appreciate the gift of my presence, I will fail to be present.

I know, I’m coming in hot today. Mainly because I was asked by two separate people in two weeks to do more than I should, and they flaked on me. Context clues can take me down a dark rabbit hole when lacking the clarity of clear-cut answers. If I feel unsure about something, I’ll do my best to understand it on my own. But honestly y’all, I’m failing the follow through of caring. While my brain wants to continue to obsess about being disrespected my life continues. Candidly speaking, I’ve got shit to do.

Playing with like-minded people is one of my favorite things to do. I enjoy spending time with folks that share that same energy. I’m already drowning in my own home right now due to the ocean of man-child washing up on my shores. The last thing I want, or need is my own time being wielded like a sword of excitement and intrigue used to stab myself with someone else’s blow. I made the choice to let the situation go and the people with it. Sometimes, you must let go to accept the good life has to offer.

P.S. If the vibes are off and you feel it, believe it. Trust the sound of your own voice. And if you’re not appreciated love, leave. It’s that simple. Don’t answer calls, or texts. Don’t respond. Life is short. Love the people that love you back and keep it moving.